Usually, a man has to come in home in time. He has less time for friends and no chance of chilling, gossiping,etc. There will be more responsibilities compared to the bachelor life.and children will cause an increase in marriage problems,and there will be less specific life goals remaining except work and responsibilities,so your own personal choice will become less.

Similarly,a girl has to manage herself, make herself prettier than before via dress, costume, perfumes etc.She will have more and more expenses to put upon the earning of her husband. She has to change herself, manage home, time, be more responsible, loving and caring.

Generally, previous relations become a main marriage problem.and secrets,which may become known,also can cause the same thing. Many times people will move towards the court and they seek for divorce in these situations.

Marriage is a relationship which needs your attention and time to progress.You can focus on your work but to build this relationship with time and effort is more important and it also makes your relationship stronger,so you need to communicate with each other and spend more and more time together so that you can get to know each other  well.

For these reasons, self indulgence and selfish activity can lead to many marital states coming to an end in terms of personal life, carelessness and even up to divorce, which is a final solution.
In truth it is not a solution rather it is the beginning of other marriage problems which can lead to misery.

Marital problems are different with every person and the solutions are just the same and it is time only which can make your relationship work as you intended,and you need to invest your hours of time to know your life partner as well. You make few commitment to your partner which can be fulfilled with great understanding and love.