If you've recently broken up with the man you love and you can't stop thinking about how to get him back again, I have good news for you.
It really is possible to get back with him, you just have to know how to do it right.
I am going to share some very specific things that you should and should not do if you really want to be successful in your efforts to win him back.
First, You Have To Stop Doing These Four Things Right Now 1.
No more calling, e-mailing, or texting him all day and night.
I know it is really hard to resist doing this, especially when you miss him so much.
But I'm telling you, it's totally working against you.
2.
Don't keep arguing with your ex about your breakup.
I know this is going to sound like strange advice, but what you really need to do is agree with him about your breakup.
Once you stop pushing, you give him a chance to start feeling drawn to you again.
People want what they can't have; it's human nature.
Get him to worry that he might not be able to get you back, and you'll make him start wanting you again.
3.
Don't get in touch with his family and friends.
It seems like it would make sense to check in with them and see what they know about your breakup, right? But it won't work.
He will find out and it will just irritate him and push him away more.
4.
Don't run into him "by accident.
" This will make it seem like you've been following him around and make you appear just that much more desperate.
This is not going to help you get him back.
So then, what SHOULD I do? Simple.
Even if you've done some or all of the things above, you can still turn things around and get him back.
It all starts with mailing him a short, handwritten letter.
Here's what you want to include in the letter: 1.
Let him know that you are okay with breaking up now.
2.
Tell him you actually agree with the decision to breakup and that you feel like it's the best thing for both of you.
3.
If you did something you feel really bad about, you can apologize for it.
Only do this if it was something really bad and even then, keep it brief.
Otherwise, just leave this out.
4.
Tell him you have something really good going on in your life right now that you like to tell him about one of these days.
5.
Let him know that you want to give him some space right now.
6.
End with something like this: It would be nice if we could be friends again some day.
When you write the note, make it sound like you feel calm and cool about the whole situation.
And that's all you need to do.
I'm telling you, this letter really works like magic.
It will intrigue him and get him to start thinking about you again.
And that's the first step toward getting back together with him.
Be Careful, Though: What You Do Next Is Really Important What you do next after sending this letter is critical.
It could mean the difference between getting him back or losing him forever.
You don't want to fall into your old ways of doing things and push him away again.
It really is possible to get back with him, you just have to know how to do it right.
I am going to share some very specific things that you should and should not do if you really want to be successful in your efforts to win him back.
First, You Have To Stop Doing These Four Things Right Now 1.
No more calling, e-mailing, or texting him all day and night.
I know it is really hard to resist doing this, especially when you miss him so much.
But I'm telling you, it's totally working against you.
2.
Don't keep arguing with your ex about your breakup.
I know this is going to sound like strange advice, but what you really need to do is agree with him about your breakup.
Once you stop pushing, you give him a chance to start feeling drawn to you again.
People want what they can't have; it's human nature.
Get him to worry that he might not be able to get you back, and you'll make him start wanting you again.
3.
Don't get in touch with his family and friends.
It seems like it would make sense to check in with them and see what they know about your breakup, right? But it won't work.
He will find out and it will just irritate him and push him away more.
4.
Don't run into him "by accident.
" This will make it seem like you've been following him around and make you appear just that much more desperate.
This is not going to help you get him back.
So then, what SHOULD I do? Simple.
Even if you've done some or all of the things above, you can still turn things around and get him back.
It all starts with mailing him a short, handwritten letter.
Here's what you want to include in the letter: 1.
Let him know that you are okay with breaking up now.
2.
Tell him you actually agree with the decision to breakup and that you feel like it's the best thing for both of you.
3.
If you did something you feel really bad about, you can apologize for it.
Only do this if it was something really bad and even then, keep it brief.
Otherwise, just leave this out.
4.
Tell him you have something really good going on in your life right now that you like to tell him about one of these days.
5.
Let him know that you want to give him some space right now.
6.
End with something like this: It would be nice if we could be friends again some day.
When you write the note, make it sound like you feel calm and cool about the whole situation.
And that's all you need to do.
I'm telling you, this letter really works like magic.
It will intrigue him and get him to start thinking about you again.
And that's the first step toward getting back together with him.
Be Careful, Though: What You Do Next Is Really Important What you do next after sending this letter is critical.
It could mean the difference between getting him back or losing him forever.
You don't want to fall into your old ways of doing things and push him away again.