When you have a new boyfriend, you will obviously have less time for your old activities. Surely, you would rather snuggle in bed with your cute boyfriend at 7 AM than jog in the park, right? However, these changes may become so malignant and a big part of your personality - your choices and dreams will change, big time.

Many women subconsciously or unconsciously lose their best selves in the throes of falling in love - an indication that your bond can be doomed. There is certain feeling for the woman to be unfulfilled because you are not being yourself and it is a big pressure, and burden for a guy to feel like he is the center of your life.
There are so many telltale signs that you are a girl who's gone missing within:

• She only makes plans with plus one
• She minimizes her traits that she thinks her man doesn't like.
• She always answers questions with: Well, we think… Always the WE...
• She watches/reads/listens to the book, movies or music her guy is into, but her boyfriend doesn't reciprocate.

These habits are harder to spot in yourself, so the best thing to do is to solicit help from a loving, true, honest friend. You may ask what she thinks of your relationship and if there are aspects that you don't see clearly because you have been blinded by love, or the feeling of it. Also, another sign that you are being lost in your so called love is that when you avoid telling a guy about your certain hobbies or friends, then you are likely to suppress something. Remember: A new love is supposed to give you excitement, yes, but thinking that your new man is too perfect and you throw yourself into it without any reason is unrealistic.

Love is a very mysterious feeling. But what makes it last and stand out is that when you are truly in love, it inspires you to become a better person, not the other way around.