When you have been married for a while, your day to day relationship becomes routine and predictable.
Nothing romantic has happened in quite some time and you know it's up to you to romance your wife and keep the home fires burning.
Here are a few ideas to get you started.
Romance Your Wife by writing her a love poem on a blank card.
It doesn't have to be original, but personalize it as much as possible.
At the bottom of the card ask her to meet you after work at her favorite restaurant.
Attach the card to a dozen roses and have them delivered to her at her job if she works or to your home if she doesn't.
Working women really love to get flowers at work.
Romance Your Wife by sharing a bath together.
Make sure you have several lit candles, a bottle of champagne or wine and glasses in the bathroom.
During the bath, let her lead in what she wants to talk about.
After the bath, suggest a romantic movie (chick flick), watch it in bed cuddling or massage her back or shoulders as you watch the movie.
Please Note: Do not let her think this is a ploy to get her into bed, this is not about sex.
If she initiates sex, then that's ok, but you shouldn't, this is about romance.
Romance Your Wife by taking her away for the weekend if you can afford it.
There's no need for it to be a long trip away, the local hotel or nearby bed and breakfast will suffice.
Do not stay in the room the entire time, go shopping, or walk along the beach holding hands or visit an arcade or museum.
Romance Your Wife by doing a lot of the little simple things such as:
I know some men have a hard time saying those words and if you are one of them, no worries; because every action listed above is, in fact saying "I love you".
Nothing romantic has happened in quite some time and you know it's up to you to romance your wife and keep the home fires burning.
Here are a few ideas to get you started.
Romance Your Wife by writing her a love poem on a blank card.
It doesn't have to be original, but personalize it as much as possible.
At the bottom of the card ask her to meet you after work at her favorite restaurant.
Attach the card to a dozen roses and have them delivered to her at her job if she works or to your home if she doesn't.
Working women really love to get flowers at work.
Romance Your Wife by sharing a bath together.
Make sure you have several lit candles, a bottle of champagne or wine and glasses in the bathroom.
During the bath, let her lead in what she wants to talk about.
After the bath, suggest a romantic movie (chick flick), watch it in bed cuddling or massage her back or shoulders as you watch the movie.
Please Note: Do not let her think this is a ploy to get her into bed, this is not about sex.
If she initiates sex, then that's ok, but you shouldn't, this is about romance.
Romance Your Wife by taking her away for the weekend if you can afford it.
There's no need for it to be a long trip away, the local hotel or nearby bed and breakfast will suffice.
Do not stay in the room the entire time, go shopping, or walk along the beach holding hands or visit an arcade or museum.
Romance Your Wife by doing a lot of the little simple things such as:
- Calling or texting her during the day to let her know you are thinking of her.
- Holding her hand or putting an arm around her shoulders, particularly when you are out in public.
- Wash her car and fill up the gas tank.
- Make your wife breakfast in bed.
- Give her a full body massage.
- Make eye contact and really listen when she speaks.
- Plan a romantic lakeside picnic.
- Sing to her or dance for her.
- Take an evening walk together.
- Say "Thank You".
Showing appreciation goes a long way. - Put an "I'm thinking of you" note in her briefcase or lunch.
I know some men have a hard time saying those words and if you are one of them, no worries; because every action listed above is, in fact saying "I love you".