Married life is totally different than life before marriage, we enter into a whole new world after we marry someone, be it a love marriage or an arranged one we have to stick in certain comportment and manners in order to make our married life a happy life.
Not all love marriages are happy ones, sometimes after marriage the couple feel distraught due to misunderstandings, lack of trust or other circumstances that result in discomfort between them.
Following tips can trigger happiness in your married life and make you a good spouse for your life partner.
Be patient: from childhood to adulthood we always face conflicts, sometimes we are ready to accept our guilt but sometimes we are way far from confessing that we are wrong, married couples usually resolve conflicts easy if they well know each other, but in case of misunderstanding between them the picture would be upside down and things would go worse, even to separations and divorce.
It is good to avoid conflicts than thinking how to resolve them, being patient for a minute can save a happy married life.
Learn from mistakes/say sorry: once committed a mistake and seen an undesirable result you should learn how to shun from such mistakes, married couples are usually sensitive in considering who first made the mistake, morale goes down mutually when couples hold back to say or accept apologies and moments becomes tedious, situation like that could lead to further problems between couples.
Get into a habit of saying sorry for your mistakes and be a good receptive of apologies.
You should always remember the cause and effect of each mistake you made in your life and avoid making those mistakes again, still human is to err, and you might make different mistakes in future, be easy, say sorry.
Be a best friend of your spouse: You had a childhood best friend who you met in school or playground, later in college life you found new ones and now after marriage it's time to make a lifetime best friend, friendship is a key point in being a good spouse, if you are a friend of your spouse you won't miss your outside friends when you are with your spouse for longer times, which means in one person you can not only find your life partner but your best friend as well.
Share anything and everything with them, keep your spouse at the top of the list of the people without whom you can't live and you will always find prosperity knocking your door.
Just welcome it.
Set visions, plan to get to: Marriage is not only for fun, pleasure or sexual relations, not only to get married and live together but it's an inducement to reach your targets, achieve your goals and see your dreams coming true.
Wife- husband relation can create a world of success if they realize it, one relying on other and with the strife to reach the visions in life can simply make it possible without lot many impediments and difficulties.
Love: love your spouse, give value to their views, listen to them and talk to them, they are the ones who leave everything and accept to live with you.
When you marry them promise it assertively and mean it that you will never replace them with anybody else, your marriage is a bond of love and trust, never let it break.
At least once a day (the further the better) tell your spouse that you love them, the three simple words but so meaningful (I love you) can boost up trust and understanding in your married life and bring out lot many joys.
Not all love marriages are happy ones, sometimes after marriage the couple feel distraught due to misunderstandings, lack of trust or other circumstances that result in discomfort between them.
Following tips can trigger happiness in your married life and make you a good spouse for your life partner.
Be patient: from childhood to adulthood we always face conflicts, sometimes we are ready to accept our guilt but sometimes we are way far from confessing that we are wrong, married couples usually resolve conflicts easy if they well know each other, but in case of misunderstanding between them the picture would be upside down and things would go worse, even to separations and divorce.
It is good to avoid conflicts than thinking how to resolve them, being patient for a minute can save a happy married life.
Learn from mistakes/say sorry: once committed a mistake and seen an undesirable result you should learn how to shun from such mistakes, married couples are usually sensitive in considering who first made the mistake, morale goes down mutually when couples hold back to say or accept apologies and moments becomes tedious, situation like that could lead to further problems between couples.
Get into a habit of saying sorry for your mistakes and be a good receptive of apologies.
You should always remember the cause and effect of each mistake you made in your life and avoid making those mistakes again, still human is to err, and you might make different mistakes in future, be easy, say sorry.
Be a best friend of your spouse: You had a childhood best friend who you met in school or playground, later in college life you found new ones and now after marriage it's time to make a lifetime best friend, friendship is a key point in being a good spouse, if you are a friend of your spouse you won't miss your outside friends when you are with your spouse for longer times, which means in one person you can not only find your life partner but your best friend as well.
Share anything and everything with them, keep your spouse at the top of the list of the people without whom you can't live and you will always find prosperity knocking your door.
Just welcome it.
Set visions, plan to get to: Marriage is not only for fun, pleasure or sexual relations, not only to get married and live together but it's an inducement to reach your targets, achieve your goals and see your dreams coming true.
Wife- husband relation can create a world of success if they realize it, one relying on other and with the strife to reach the visions in life can simply make it possible without lot many impediments and difficulties.
Love: love your spouse, give value to their views, listen to them and talk to them, they are the ones who leave everything and accept to live with you.
When you marry them promise it assertively and mean it that you will never replace them with anybody else, your marriage is a bond of love and trust, never let it break.
At least once a day (the further the better) tell your spouse that you love them, the three simple words but so meaningful (I love you) can boost up trust and understanding in your married life and bring out lot many joys.