To call all the shots in the relationship you will have to drastically alter the dynamics of the relationship.
To do this you will have to prove to your man that his need for you is greater than your need.
Now, how do you do this difficult task? Well, it is not easy but definitely worth a try.
However, the result will depend on how hard you try and how much perseverance you have.
Here is what needs to be done.
Don't show the chinks in your armor The best way to go about it is to not have any weakness.
There are any number of professionals available for the right fee that can fix any personality defects that you may have.
Seek their services and make changes so that your weaker side is never revealed to him.
Also make it a point to note his weakness so that they can be exploited to further your cause.
Independence When you put a premium on your independence within the relationship, your man realizes that he cannot mess with your feelings.
Remain independent of him financially as well as emotionally.
This should not be done only in the beginning of the relationship but throughout the course of your relationship.
Don't tie him down to you Well, if you want to dominate a living being then go and get yourself a pet.
However, even pets will rebel if you chain them for long.
Take a lesson from this and don't try to put your man on a leash.
He needs to be free to feel like he is in control of the situation.
Social butterfly You may be in a relationship and you really adore and cherish your man.
However, if you give up all your friends then you will be hopelessly dependent on his whims and fancies for your recreation.
Keep your social contacts and in fact increase your social network so that you do not have to depend on him when you want to have fun.
Attractive personality Along with intellectual maturity and cerebral attitude you will also need a great body so that other men find you attractive.
Once your man realizes that you are popular amongst men he will do all that you say just so that you do not desert him.
Strength of character Apart from being loyal and trustworthy you will also need to show that you know how to enjoy life.
When you become the life of a party or become popular your man will willingly give you the controls of the relationship.
He knows that when you are around there is never a dull moment.
Don't get bogged down Don't get bogged down by the sheer weight of expectations from your man.
You will have to show him his place in your life by sometimes sticking to your stand.
When you refuse to be a doormat he treats you with respect and gives in to your demands.