Youve met the girl of your dreams: shes gorgeous, funny and best of all, shes talking to you! Youve gotten her number, now what?

You sent her a message fifteen minutes ago and she still hasnt replied. Did she fall asleep? Did she lose her phone? Most likely, she just got bored. Girls love good conversation and if you dont know what to text girls, theyll stop replying.

Girls look for four main things when texting a guy:

• Hes interesting. Girls love gossip and a good story.


• Hes not afraid to talk to her. Dont make her always text you first.


• He sees as a person, not an imaginary goddess. Girls arent perfect. Too many compliments quickly gets boring.


• Hes different. Be mysterious, a puzzle she has to complete. Make her want to figure you out. Be the most interesting man in the room.

Dont make her wait forever to hear from you. If she thinks youre not interested, she might move on.

Greet her casually and mention who you are. A simple, Hey, this is the awesome guy you met at the bar last night, is a great way to start. Dont write her a paragraph as your first text. Youll seem desperate and girls dont like that.

Be in charge of the conversation. Dont make her wait three hours for a one word response. Show her youre happy to talk to her.

Talk about things youre both interested in. Ask her about her favorite music or her favorite TV shows.

Instead of asking her on a date, let her know where youll be and invite her to come. This lets her know youre interested in her, but youre not going to do all the work. Youre not making her presence the focus of the evening. This will give you a chance to see the real her when shes not being pressured to be perfect.

Mention things you noticed about her. Let her be herself. Get her to open up to you. Dont be afraid to tease her, girls love a guy with a sense of humor. Be sure she knows youre teasing and be quick to apologize if shes insulted.

Talk about yourself and answer any questions she may have. If she asks about your day, show interest in hers. Questions are the best way to keep a conversation moving.

Youll learn more about her and shell want to talk to you. Dont ask her any questions you wouldnt be comfortable answering yourself.

Make sure you keep her interested. Dont babble. Make her glad she gave you her number. If she vents to you about problems in her life, be a good listener. Dont immediately badmouth everyone shes complaining about.

If she says Jennifer is being mean, dont agree and say Jennifer is stupid too. If you do that when talking to her, she may suspect youll talk bad about her to others too.

Always remember to say goodbye. Say goodnight and promise to speak to her later.