My Husband Says He Doesn't Love Me Anymore! How Can I Win My Husbands Love Back?
How can I win my husbands love back? It doesn't matter how long you've been married or how happy you've been or how rocky things might have been in the past. If your husband says he doesn't love you anymore, it can be a very difficult and devastating thing to hear. So much of our self esteem is wrapped up in our role as husband, wife, mom or dad and to hear something like that from the man you love may very well make you feel like you have failed as a wife. This is more than likely not true; you just need to understand that the relationship is experiencing growth and this article is about setting yourself on the proper course to win back his love.
When I talk about growth, I am not talking about positive growth that makes things better. I am talking about the growth that usually takes place with married couples where at some point in the marriage, feelings, emotions and attitudes begin to change. If not handled properly and communicated effectively, the couple will begin to grow apart. While this is certainly growth, it's not the kind of growth you want! The point I want to make is that in any relationship, growth is going to take place. You will either grow through it together, or grow through it separately.
1. Resist the urge to cry and pout and act hurt
2. Accept your husband's feelings for what they are
3. Work on yourself mentally, spiritually and physically
4. Pursue what you love doing
5. Give your husband whatever space he needs
6. Do not put your life on hold, hinging upon his every move
7. Portray the image of a healthy, happy & confident woman
Your husband has been honest enough to share his innermost feelings with you, even though it was obviously something you didn't want to hear. By being accepting of his feelings and showing him that the two of you have an emotional connection regardless of the situation, you have something you can build on. There is a very good chance that his honest sharing of his feelings means that he is open to the idea of trying to work through these feelings with you. This is how you will begin to win back his love. But there is still more work to be done. Read on..
When I talk about growth, I am not talking about positive growth that makes things better. I am talking about the growth that usually takes place with married couples where at some point in the marriage, feelings, emotions and attitudes begin to change. If not handled properly and communicated effectively, the couple will begin to grow apart. While this is certainly growth, it's not the kind of growth you want! The point I want to make is that in any relationship, growth is going to take place. You will either grow through it together, or grow through it separately.
1. Resist the urge to cry and pout and act hurt
2. Accept your husband's feelings for what they are
3. Work on yourself mentally, spiritually and physically
4. Pursue what you love doing
5. Give your husband whatever space he needs
6. Do not put your life on hold, hinging upon his every move
7. Portray the image of a healthy, happy & confident woman
Your husband has been honest enough to share his innermost feelings with you, even though it was obviously something you didn't want to hear. By being accepting of his feelings and showing him that the two of you have an emotional connection regardless of the situation, you have something you can build on. There is a very good chance that his honest sharing of his feelings means that he is open to the idea of trying to work through these feelings with you. This is how you will begin to win back his love. But there is still more work to be done. Read on..