It's no secret that many guys are able to get their girlfriend back - even after a seemingly impossible situation.
What is their secret, and can you adopted this attitude and use it to your advantage? What you'll likely notice about these individuals is that they have a high level of self-esteem and confidence.
They are unlikely to show any signs of desperation and neediness.
Even though they may be hurting quite badly, they are able to shake it off and carry on with their own life.
This has the effect of giving them a psychological advantage over their ex-girlfriend and they end up calling the shots.
But is this something you can use in your situation? The number one thing you want to keep in mind is that the more emotion you show after the breakup, the worse it's going to be for you down the road.
Your display of emotion will supercharge your ex and give them undeniable power over you.
Guys that are comfortable with themselves tend not to display this type of emotion - and if they do, they never let their ex see it.
Also keep in mind that every phone call, text message, and e-mail you send to your ex girlfriend will shout desperation.
The more you pile on, the more pathetic and needy you're going to seem.
Your girlfriend is not attracted to this type of behavior and the sooner you realize this, the better off you're going to be.
So pick yourself up, and brush yourself off, and stop worrying about your ex for a while.
Any communication should be along the lines of, "I accept the breakup and I wish you the best.
" And then simply get on with your life.
Don't backtrack, don't apologize for things you didn't do, and don't beg.
Do this, and you could see your ex contacting you instead.