Marriage is a complex matter and it can often go awry when left unchecked by both partners.
There are things you can do to fix your marriage, make it better and keep it strong.
Here are three tips that are proven to work.
1.
Fix the problem not each other.
Many times when couples argue, they start attacking each other instead of tackling the issue.
It is important to consciously take a step back and calm down when an argument takes a turn for the worst.
once you and your partner are calm, you can then take the time and really think about the issue.
Why is it an issue? What can you both do to fix it and avoid making the same mistake in the future? Handle the dispute in the most constructive manner possible.
2.
Don't give up.
Giving up is a frequent occurrence in difficult marriages.
Both partners are too jaded to care what becomes of each other and eventually it turns to animosity toward the other person.
Avoid this by keeping the hope alive.
you can have a happy marriage and all you have to do is work towards it.
If you tell yourself that it won't work out, then it won't work out.
It is as simple as that.
Put your mind to it and work for it.
You will have that marriage you deserve because you are going to put in the effort to make it right.
3.
Be fair.
Treat your spouse they way you would like to be treated.
This is simple enough and most religions teach us that we should treat others as we ourselves would like to be treated.
In arguments we tend to point the finger or close up and say nothing.
Neither of these methods are fair to your partner or yourself.
You both need to share feelings and thoughts on the issues at hand.