Nine Situations in Which Your Guy Needs Your Love and Support the Most
So what if he's a man, that doesn't mean he doesn't need to be emphasised with.
The times he needs you the most are as follows: 1.
WHEN HE IS OUT OF JOB AND IS LOW ON SELF ESTEEM Your man will never forget the way you supported him and put him back together.
This is one such phase when a man needs emotional support the most.
Rarely will he ask for it but deep down he would be crying out loud for it.
2.
WHEN HE HAS LOST A NEAR AND DEAR ONE Men rarely cry but this is one such situation that totally breaks them (anyone actually).
Your hug and concern and showing that you are and will always be there can be of great help to him.
Your presence might make him overcome his loss.
3.
WHEN HE IS UNWELL Some men need full attention when unwell.
Yet there are others who want to be totally by themselves.
In either cases make sure your presence is felt, literally in the former case and passively in the latter.
Make sure you cook all things nice and light for him to regain his energy levels.
4.
WHEN HE HAS FOUGHT WITH HIS CLOSE BUDDIES/FAMILY Well this a really tricky one.
He is bound to take out some amount of frustration on you and be ready for handling some unnecessary attitude.
Try and understand him and then tactfully pacify him.
5.
WHEN HE WANTS TO SURPRISE HIS MUM WITH A GIFT This is your golden chance to make him realise how easily you fit his frame.
He needs you the most here because he would be totally clueless about what his mother would like or dislike.
Your advice will definitely ease out his 'shopping the best for mommy dilemma'.
6.
WHEN HE IS STRESSED OR WORKED UP Never show your back on him when he comes home tired from a pressurized day at work.
No matter how much you were waiting to cuddle when he just came in, changed and slept.
Try being emphatic and sensitive towards him.
7.
WHEN HE'S STRUGGLING WITH MONEY You will be a total star for him if you can pull off smoothly with him in this phase of his life.
Men don't like showing their helpless side and just in case he has, try and realise what he actually is going through.
Be reasonable with him at this stage and keep conspicuous consumption at bay.
8.
WHEN HE IS UNSURE ABOUT HIS FUTURE PLANS He might be scared of doing the 'serious talk', but if you feel it's about time and you both should be clear about future.
Then take the control from him and come on the driver's seat.
Maybe he is waiting for you to initiate and he would follow.
9.
WHEN HE'S EXPECTING AN APPRAISAL It's good news we know!! But when a man is slightly over excited he needs a lot of support and backing up.
Pump him up, be a happy part of his big day and vocalise how high you think of him and his skills.
Motivation always takes men a long long way.
P.
s (Try these pointers with your man and we are sure you will come back to thank us.
Keep loving and keep supporting...
!!)
The times he needs you the most are as follows: 1.
WHEN HE IS OUT OF JOB AND IS LOW ON SELF ESTEEM Your man will never forget the way you supported him and put him back together.
This is one such phase when a man needs emotional support the most.
Rarely will he ask for it but deep down he would be crying out loud for it.
2.
WHEN HE HAS LOST A NEAR AND DEAR ONE Men rarely cry but this is one such situation that totally breaks them (anyone actually).
Your hug and concern and showing that you are and will always be there can be of great help to him.
Your presence might make him overcome his loss.
3.
WHEN HE IS UNWELL Some men need full attention when unwell.
Yet there are others who want to be totally by themselves.
In either cases make sure your presence is felt, literally in the former case and passively in the latter.
Make sure you cook all things nice and light for him to regain his energy levels.
4.
WHEN HE HAS FOUGHT WITH HIS CLOSE BUDDIES/FAMILY Well this a really tricky one.
He is bound to take out some amount of frustration on you and be ready for handling some unnecessary attitude.
Try and understand him and then tactfully pacify him.
5.
WHEN HE WANTS TO SURPRISE HIS MUM WITH A GIFT This is your golden chance to make him realise how easily you fit his frame.
He needs you the most here because he would be totally clueless about what his mother would like or dislike.
Your advice will definitely ease out his 'shopping the best for mommy dilemma'.
6.
WHEN HE IS STRESSED OR WORKED UP Never show your back on him when he comes home tired from a pressurized day at work.
No matter how much you were waiting to cuddle when he just came in, changed and slept.
Try being emphatic and sensitive towards him.
7.
WHEN HE'S STRUGGLING WITH MONEY You will be a total star for him if you can pull off smoothly with him in this phase of his life.
Men don't like showing their helpless side and just in case he has, try and realise what he actually is going through.
Be reasonable with him at this stage and keep conspicuous consumption at bay.
8.
WHEN HE IS UNSURE ABOUT HIS FUTURE PLANS He might be scared of doing the 'serious talk', but if you feel it's about time and you both should be clear about future.
Then take the control from him and come on the driver's seat.
Maybe he is waiting for you to initiate and he would follow.
9.
WHEN HE'S EXPECTING AN APPRAISAL It's good news we know!! But when a man is slightly over excited he needs a lot of support and backing up.
Pump him up, be a happy part of his big day and vocalise how high you think of him and his skills.
Motivation always takes men a long long way.
P.
s (Try these pointers with your man and we are sure you will come back to thank us.
Keep loving and keep supporting...
!!)