Can lovers be truly friends after breaking up? Some of you maybe nodding your heads, some might be saying, "What the hell is this guy talking about".
Couples have a hard time dealing with their feelings especially right after they've just broken up.
All of us have been into that place where we wanted to be our ex-lover's friend.
Choosing to be her friend is actually a good thing, as this show signs that even though you're not together anymore, you still enjoy her company and still want to spend time with her.
Therefore, here are three ways to know that you can be a great friend to her.
Being able to converse with her with no awkwardness is a good sign that both of you are comfortable being together.
Sometimes the boundaries between being a good friend and wanting her back is crossed so before you do anything, you might want to double check to see if you still have any feelings for her.
As a friend, it is your job to make sure she receives the necessary encouragement and emotional support she needs.
When she's sad, you should just talk her, this way she'd notice that you really do care for her.
If you have a hard time doing this then might as well leave because you are truly selfish and it is very obvious that you really don't care for her that much.
Be open-minded when it comes to her.
She might come to you if ever problems arise.
Just give good advices and in turn, she'll recognize that you're really trying hard to be a good friend to her.
With her realizing your efforts, she would be happy that you are just there with her.
Having been the caring and positive person you are, you have now become a good friend to her.
You have proven that you are qualified in being a great friend despite the fact that you were once an Ex.