Your girlfriend just broke up with you.
Its important that you understand this one simple rule.
The less contact you have with your girlfriend and the more time you give her, the better you chances of getting her back are.
This sounds wrong but if you keep contacting her you are reminding her of why she broke up with you.
This phase is called low contact or no contact.
She needs to have enough time to get over whatever the problem was and to start remembering you in a good way.
The old saying "Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
" is exactly right.
You need this time too.
Step back and really look at what the problems were, and decide if you even want her back.
You might miss her at first, but after the emotions die down some, you can ask yourself if you really want her back, and get a solid answer.
If after you calm down you decide you still want her back then you can make a solid rational attempt to do so.
If you don't have a plan, you are planning to fail.
Planning while your emotions are still hot is a good way to come up with a bad plan.
As an added bonus after she calms down it could be her that decides she wants you back.
You will never find out if you had a chance if you constantly contact her.
In a perfect world after you both calm down you may both decide that you want to be together again.
Relationships are tricky at best.
If you seriously want to get your ex girlfriend back you need to have a solid plan.