Sharing and marriage and two concepts we will look at this week in our discussion concerning relationships.
We are going to examine the concept of sharing and see how it comes into play inthe act of marriage and how to enjoy the best of both worlds.
Sharing is the act of dividing into parts, either equally or otherwise.
The formula to be used depends to a great extent on the owner.
In marriage, sharing is everything but, some find it difficult to share.
The way and manner to share depends largely on factors on ground.
I mean, the factors laid down by the partners.
Let's take a home where both partners earn good incomes.
Money is not the problem of such homes, but little household chores like washing the dishes, bathing the kids and so on.
Countless families are constantly bickering and nagging over attending a social function together all because one partner "refuses to put on the dress" the other wanted.
What about the one that spilled over after a night out and the dishes stayed a whole week with no one to wash them? Both parties saying they are "far too busy in the office or running late," even to kiss the kids bye in the morning was a herculean task.
Simple domestic chores have been known to separate homes, because couples find it difficult to share what they have and refuse to meet at a point of agreement where the other party will be looked upon as a helpmate rather than a house-help.
This problem becomes more complex, when only one partner brings money home, the other is looked upon as a lazy person who sits around all day doing nothing while I sweat my butt off to feed you.
That is where the Ego takes centre stage and needs to be quickly removed otherwise that marriage is done for.
Learn to share with your mate, help in simple things like dusting the chairs, bathing the kids, and so on.
It will go a long way in making your home to be firmly established - for there is nothing like a home well settled with smiling faces all around.
It helps to keep your marital fire burning.
We are going to examine the concept of sharing and see how it comes into play inthe act of marriage and how to enjoy the best of both worlds.
Sharing is the act of dividing into parts, either equally or otherwise.
The formula to be used depends to a great extent on the owner.
In marriage, sharing is everything but, some find it difficult to share.
The way and manner to share depends largely on factors on ground.
I mean, the factors laid down by the partners.
Let's take a home where both partners earn good incomes.
Money is not the problem of such homes, but little household chores like washing the dishes, bathing the kids and so on.
Countless families are constantly bickering and nagging over attending a social function together all because one partner "refuses to put on the dress" the other wanted.
What about the one that spilled over after a night out and the dishes stayed a whole week with no one to wash them? Both parties saying they are "far too busy in the office or running late," even to kiss the kids bye in the morning was a herculean task.
Simple domestic chores have been known to separate homes, because couples find it difficult to share what they have and refuse to meet at a point of agreement where the other party will be looked upon as a helpmate rather than a house-help.
This problem becomes more complex, when only one partner brings money home, the other is looked upon as a lazy person who sits around all day doing nothing while I sweat my butt off to feed you.
That is where the Ego takes centre stage and needs to be quickly removed otherwise that marriage is done for.
Learn to share with your mate, help in simple things like dusting the chairs, bathing the kids, and so on.
It will go a long way in making your home to be firmly established - for there is nothing like a home well settled with smiling faces all around.
It helps to keep your marital fire burning.