So, your relationship is broken up and you wonder what went wrong.
Reconciliation in marriage is something that you want so bad that you start to think about how you can best apologize.
Should I write him/her a letter etc.
might be some of the things you might consider.
I say, DON'T! I know it's easy to let your head wonder away and take you on for a spin, but don't let it.
Letters with an apology tends to be a dead end anyways and might even just end up doing more harm than good.
You see, in many cases people can't really tell why they broke up in the first place.
Sure if he or she was unfaithful they can say it was due to that single fact, but without a single factor, people tend to not know the real reason for a breakup so let it go for a while and save your energy.
A good thing to do is to let it go.
Just for a while.
Spend time with your friends, find some new ones even network from time to time.
I know that reconciliation in marriage is important and that marriage is something that you should not get out of easily.
I mean, you did get married for a reason right? But even so, try to give yourself a couple of months where you do nothing but think about yourself and your friends and you hobbies.
Doing it this way will eventually give you a new perspective in life and in your marriage.
You will get a clearer image of what it is that you really want you might also see a change in your partners behavior.
Now that you have spent this time apart he/she might miss you as much as you do.
But now comes the important part.
If you see your "ex" is getting more interested, you need to be cool.
Don't just jump right back in.
You need to act a bit hard to get.
Show your "ex" that you are doing just fine without him or her and that life is not really that bad alone.
That will give the other party a reason to rethink things and it might even make him/her even more interested.
At the end it is all up to you.
Just remember to not push too hard and to take it slow.
If you do that and play hard to get I think you should do fine.
Reconciliation in marriage might be in your grasp.
Good luck and stay safe.
Reconciliation in marriage is something that you want so bad that you start to think about how you can best apologize.
Should I write him/her a letter etc.
might be some of the things you might consider.
I say, DON'T! I know it's easy to let your head wonder away and take you on for a spin, but don't let it.
Letters with an apology tends to be a dead end anyways and might even just end up doing more harm than good.
You see, in many cases people can't really tell why they broke up in the first place.
Sure if he or she was unfaithful they can say it was due to that single fact, but without a single factor, people tend to not know the real reason for a breakup so let it go for a while and save your energy.
A good thing to do is to let it go.
Just for a while.
Spend time with your friends, find some new ones even network from time to time.
I know that reconciliation in marriage is important and that marriage is something that you should not get out of easily.
I mean, you did get married for a reason right? But even so, try to give yourself a couple of months where you do nothing but think about yourself and your friends and you hobbies.
Doing it this way will eventually give you a new perspective in life and in your marriage.
You will get a clearer image of what it is that you really want you might also see a change in your partners behavior.
Now that you have spent this time apart he/she might miss you as much as you do.
But now comes the important part.
If you see your "ex" is getting more interested, you need to be cool.
Don't just jump right back in.
You need to act a bit hard to get.
Show your "ex" that you are doing just fine without him or her and that life is not really that bad alone.
That will give the other party a reason to rethink things and it might even make him/her even more interested.
At the end it is all up to you.
Just remember to not push too hard and to take it slow.
If you do that and play hard to get I think you should do fine.
Reconciliation in marriage might be in your grasp.
Good luck and stay safe.