Wherever you go in the world, you'll see that marriage is held in the highest esteem by every culture.
Which makes the fact "more than half of all marriages end in divorce" even more sad.
Your spouse wants to divorce you but you don't want to just give in - and this is a noble thing, because it's definitely not easy to do.
For this reason I want to help you, and I think I will be helpful to you, because I have gone through what you have.
I remember those days and they were the worst of my life.
I used to think every day, every hour; what do you do when your spouse wants to divorce you but you don't? As time passed and I couldn't come up with anything, I became even more desperate and began to give in to my emotions, which I previously knew that would make me do the wrong things.
But with a heightened state of desperation, I did those - I begged my spouse to reconsider everything.
I cried.
And this is the last thing you should do when your spouse wants to divorce you.
Who wants a pathetic spouse who begs you and cries to you because you say you don't want this marriage any longer? Nobody.
But when you are desperate, it's not easy to see this.
You feel the urge to do something at once before your marriage is gone forever.
So what should be done when your spouse wants to divorce you? Before your emotions make you have knee-jerk reactions that you are going to regret horribly afterwards; you have to get a hold of your emotions.
Do not be desperate.
Know this fact and don't forget it for life: These knee-jerk reactions and the "I must do something" desperation kill more marriages than the marriage problems themselves.
If you do things right, you can stop a divorce, but for that, you must first come to your senses and keep your "cool".
This is the crucial first step to save your marriage.