My husband cheated on me and I left him.
After I moved on, he wants me back.
Why? Many people tend to take things for granted in their relationship especially when one of the parties is always giving in, thinking that he or she will not leave no matter what.
However, this is not true.
There is always a limit to patience.
Have you ever heard wives saying "My husband wants me back and he is regretting on his decision to break the marriage.
" How will the husband come back to the wife? Don't beg your husband.
Well, I will also feel shocked if my wife wants a divorce now, but we all should know the respond to a divorce should not be desperate.
When you start to beg and cry for another chance, you are already showing out your desperation.
Desperation will only drive you to do things unwillingly or perhaps not even logical.
Be strong I do agree it is not easy to be strong after a break up in the beginning stage.
It takes time to get over and move on.
You have to tell yourself if you want your life to be better, you are not afraid to live on your own.
It is only when you think that you are strong enough to live on your own without your husband, you start to show confidence and your husband will know that how well you are coping with the situation.
Show no interest in his affair Your husband probably will wonder why you are not asking about him anymore especially if you show the most concern over everything last time.
He will then start to guess if you still love him or not.
Do not show too much eagerness If you are still hoping to get back together with your husband, you cannot show too much eagerness when he wants to reconcile back with you.
This is a chance to prove his sincerity in fixing the marriage.
If he truly wants to get back you, he will try hard.
Most importantly, you have to understand what are the best for both of you in this marriage and it is only when you know how to handle problems properly, your marriage can sustain.
After I moved on, he wants me back.
Why? Many people tend to take things for granted in their relationship especially when one of the parties is always giving in, thinking that he or she will not leave no matter what.
However, this is not true.
There is always a limit to patience.
Have you ever heard wives saying "My husband wants me back and he is regretting on his decision to break the marriage.
" How will the husband come back to the wife? Don't beg your husband.
Well, I will also feel shocked if my wife wants a divorce now, but we all should know the respond to a divorce should not be desperate.
When you start to beg and cry for another chance, you are already showing out your desperation.
Desperation will only drive you to do things unwillingly or perhaps not even logical.
Be strong I do agree it is not easy to be strong after a break up in the beginning stage.
It takes time to get over and move on.
You have to tell yourself if you want your life to be better, you are not afraid to live on your own.
It is only when you think that you are strong enough to live on your own without your husband, you start to show confidence and your husband will know that how well you are coping with the situation.
Show no interest in his affair Your husband probably will wonder why you are not asking about him anymore especially if you show the most concern over everything last time.
He will then start to guess if you still love him or not.
Do not show too much eagerness If you are still hoping to get back together with your husband, you cannot show too much eagerness when he wants to reconcile back with you.
This is a chance to prove his sincerity in fixing the marriage.
If he truly wants to get back you, he will try hard.
Most importantly, you have to understand what are the best for both of you in this marriage and it is only when you know how to handle problems properly, your marriage can sustain.