God loves you no matter what your opinion of yourself is.
You are "fearfully and wonderfully made," created by Him who knew you while in your mother's womb! He has a special plan just for you (Psalm 139:13-14).
You are absolutely unique with strengths and abilities that know one else has, so don't sell yourself short by letting low self-esteem rule you.
In this article I'll discuss two critical problems associated with low self-esteem.
1.
Low self-esteem limits your peace of mind, your personal freedom, and your ability to express yourself fully! Because your low self-esteem makes you want to avoid social encounters your opportunity to build confidence is sacrificed.
The more social encounters you avoid, the better you get at avoiding them! Therefore, you are actually reinforcing your fear.
It's just like practicing to be a social outcast - Soon you become frozen in fear and completely unable to function in normal social settings.
This behavior is very frustrating and can destroy your peace.
The "you" you were born to be is violated, and you cannot be your true, authentic self.
By not allowing yourself to experience new things, you are perpetuating your fear, which lowers your self-esteem even more.
But, these problems are about how they are affecting you! What about how they are effecting other people? 2.
Low self-esteem inhibits your ability to bless other people! When you are so worried about what other people think of you, you become incapable of being a blessings.
What's happening is, your thoughts become inward, and you become more preoccupied with what kind of impression you're making to care much about them.
It has become "All about you!" Those who experience low self-esteem tend to be viewed as unfriendly, standoffish, self-centered, arrogant, or even rude! No one wants to be around someone like that.
In reality you are probably not really like that, but you may as well be.
Your impression on other people is still the same.
How can you truly make a difference in someone else's life if you can't forget about yourself for a moment and just put yourself out there? The fact is you will never be ultimately happy while low self-esteem is holding you back.
Conclusion What you allow into your mind and what you intentionally put into it are directly linked to the situations and circumstances you find yourself in! Monitor what you are allowing into your mind.
Eliminate those things that make you feel small, incomplete, or even worthless.
Soap operas, romance novels, scary movies, and the worst of all...
pornography! They are are all bad news and can make your life a wreck! Read the Book of John from the Bible regularly, plus some other good books on self-esteem written by Christian authors.
Also, associate with people who have positive self-esteem.
You are "fearfully and wonderfully made," created by Him who knew you while in your mother's womb! He has a special plan just for you (Psalm 139:13-14).
You are absolutely unique with strengths and abilities that know one else has, so don't sell yourself short by letting low self-esteem rule you.
In this article I'll discuss two critical problems associated with low self-esteem.
1.
Low self-esteem limits your peace of mind, your personal freedom, and your ability to express yourself fully! Because your low self-esteem makes you want to avoid social encounters your opportunity to build confidence is sacrificed.
The more social encounters you avoid, the better you get at avoiding them! Therefore, you are actually reinforcing your fear.
It's just like practicing to be a social outcast - Soon you become frozen in fear and completely unable to function in normal social settings.
This behavior is very frustrating and can destroy your peace.
The "you" you were born to be is violated, and you cannot be your true, authentic self.
By not allowing yourself to experience new things, you are perpetuating your fear, which lowers your self-esteem even more.
But, these problems are about how they are affecting you! What about how they are effecting other people? 2.
Low self-esteem inhibits your ability to bless other people! When you are so worried about what other people think of you, you become incapable of being a blessings.
What's happening is, your thoughts become inward, and you become more preoccupied with what kind of impression you're making to care much about them.
It has become "All about you!" Those who experience low self-esteem tend to be viewed as unfriendly, standoffish, self-centered, arrogant, or even rude! No one wants to be around someone like that.
In reality you are probably not really like that, but you may as well be.
Your impression on other people is still the same.
How can you truly make a difference in someone else's life if you can't forget about yourself for a moment and just put yourself out there? The fact is you will never be ultimately happy while low self-esteem is holding you back.
Conclusion What you allow into your mind and what you intentionally put into it are directly linked to the situations and circumstances you find yourself in! Monitor what you are allowing into your mind.
Eliminate those things that make you feel small, incomplete, or even worthless.
Soap operas, romance novels, scary movies, and the worst of all...
pornography! They are are all bad news and can make your life a wreck! Read the Book of John from the Bible regularly, plus some other good books on self-esteem written by Christian authors.
Also, associate with people who have positive self-esteem.