Trying to describe to someone else the emotional pain you feel after a break up is virtually impossible.
No one can really understand unless they've been in your position.
The end of a relationship is rarely easy, even if you're glad that it's over and you're moving forward.
If you happen to still deeply love the man you're no longer with, it's torturous.
It's too difficult to move forward without him when all you really want is to get him back in your arms.
Although others may tell you that the best thing you can do is forget about him, don't give up on him just yet.
There are ways to appeal to his heart again so you can get another chance with him.
If you love him, learning how to get him back is something you need to be doing.
In order to get him back in your arms you have to first get your emotions under control.
Losing the man you love is likely the hardest thing you've ever faced and your emotions are showing it.
Crying endlessly, feeling depressed and wanting to hide out from the world are all common emotions women experience at a time like this.
You need to learn how to harness all of that emotion.
One of the biggest mistakes you can make right now is showing him that you're so emotional.
Most men just aren't comfortable being around someone who is that emotional.
If he sees or hears you acting that way he's going to label you as unstable and desperate.
Once that happens it's even more challenging to get him back.
Bite back the tears, put a smile on your face and appear to be okay.
This will help you to show him that you're strong and stable.
All you really want to do right now is talk to him to convince him that he's made a mistake and should take you back.
That's not going to get him back.
He's probably not even going to want to listen to you talk about the failed relationship.
He needs space and time and that's what you're going to give him.
Most men, virtually all of them, expect certain reactions from their ex girlfriends.
If you do the exact opposite, you'll knock him off his feet.
He'll suddenly be the vulnerable and unsure one.
So instead of throwing yourself at him in an effort to win back his love, stop talking to him.
That's right.
You're going to disappear for a few weeks.
You're not going to call him, or email him, and you're not going to send even one text message.
You're just going to fade away into the distance quietly.
If you can do this and if you can muster up the strength to not talk to him for a few weeks, he'll come running after you.
Once he experiences his life without you and he realizes you're not chomping at the bit to get him back, he'll want you back.