Sex and Marriage Relationships - Going From Super-Mom to Super-Sex Goddess
"Parenthood:That state of being better chaperoned than you were before marriage.
" Marcelene Cox Do you know how many women complain about losing interest in sex after having kids?As a mom, every minute of your day is consumed with the kids, household chores, and work.
There is little time left over for romance or even just for yourself.
Read on to discover how to go from being super-mom to super-sex-goddess.
Is everyone else a sex-goddess but you? Many women do not realize how common it is to lose interest in sex after becoming a mom.
Sex is so dominant in our society.
Every where you look there is something about sex: on television, in magazine articles, and though out advertising.
It seems like everyone else is having sex and lots of it.
The reality is that moms are exhausted.
By bedtime, they just want to go to sleep.
So what happened to the good old days when sex reigned supreme? The problem Most of the problem stems from the changes that a child brings to a mom's lifestyle.
First, she does not have as much quality time with her husband.
Women need those "warm fuzzy" feelings in order to be in the mood for sex.
It is hard to feel emotionally connected to your husband without quality time.
Not having enough couple time together is a common problem after having kids.
There is so much to do, that romance gets pushed aside.
When you do get time together it is usually at bedtime.
Because you have not had enough time to connect emotionally, then you may feel like all he wants from you is sex.
On the other hand, he may be frustrated because it seems like you never in the mood for sex anymore.
Second, moms are exhausted from their hectic schedules.
There is only so much you can do in one day and still have energy left over for lovemaking at night.
Third, most women find it difficult to make the change from daytime super-mom to nighttime super-sex-goddess instantaneously.
The chores of motherhood do not make you feel sexy.
After all, who feels sexy changing dirty diapers or chauffeuring kids to soccer.
It would be nice if we were like Wonder Woman and could just whirl around in the bedroom a few times to go from being an ordinary mom to a super (sex) hero.
Changing roles It may take more than just whirling around, but there are changes that you can make in order to help restore your libido.
One thing that helps is allow time to change roles from mom to lover.
This may be something as simple as taking a bath (alone or with your husband) or sitting together on the couch snuggling and talking about your day.
" Marcelene Cox Do you know how many women complain about losing interest in sex after having kids?As a mom, every minute of your day is consumed with the kids, household chores, and work.
There is little time left over for romance or even just for yourself.
Read on to discover how to go from being super-mom to super-sex-goddess.
Is everyone else a sex-goddess but you? Many women do not realize how common it is to lose interest in sex after becoming a mom.
Sex is so dominant in our society.
Every where you look there is something about sex: on television, in magazine articles, and though out advertising.
It seems like everyone else is having sex and lots of it.
The reality is that moms are exhausted.
By bedtime, they just want to go to sleep.
So what happened to the good old days when sex reigned supreme? The problem Most of the problem stems from the changes that a child brings to a mom's lifestyle.
First, she does not have as much quality time with her husband.
Women need those "warm fuzzy" feelings in order to be in the mood for sex.
It is hard to feel emotionally connected to your husband without quality time.
Not having enough couple time together is a common problem after having kids.
There is so much to do, that romance gets pushed aside.
When you do get time together it is usually at bedtime.
Because you have not had enough time to connect emotionally, then you may feel like all he wants from you is sex.
On the other hand, he may be frustrated because it seems like you never in the mood for sex anymore.
Second, moms are exhausted from their hectic schedules.
There is only so much you can do in one day and still have energy left over for lovemaking at night.
Third, most women find it difficult to make the change from daytime super-mom to nighttime super-sex-goddess instantaneously.
The chores of motherhood do not make you feel sexy.
After all, who feels sexy changing dirty diapers or chauffeuring kids to soccer.
It would be nice if we were like Wonder Woman and could just whirl around in the bedroom a few times to go from being an ordinary mom to a super (sex) hero.
Changing roles It may take more than just whirling around, but there are changes that you can make in order to help restore your libido.
One thing that helps is allow time to change roles from mom to lover.
This may be something as simple as taking a bath (alone or with your husband) or sitting together on the couch snuggling and talking about your day.