Because of the danger they represent for a poorly consolidated marriage, lust, lack of morality and egoism that are hiding under the guise of love, a feeling that is born, rather than strengthen a home, sometimes it comes apart: it is jealousy.
It says there is no love without jealousy. I would say rather that, where jealousy is not true love.
Jealousy is fear, distrust and suspicion. It is a tyrannical form of denial of personality, freedom of thought and action, that seeps, as tens of octopus tentacles, even in the thoughts of "love", which he wrapped and strangle them. Surrounded in an atmosphere of permanent hostility, man becomes a mere object, which is denied the right to have friends, preferences, entertainment or concerns you away from the person you need to love, which must consider every moment.
As long as occurs sporadically, but binds to a fact that could cause such a reaction (whether or not that was real), jealousy can be accepted and understood, especially if the person suffering from this "disease "is an exclusive and authoritative person.
When it becomes an obsession, a craze, when silence is a cause for suspicion, living with a jealous man becomes an ordeal.
Fortunately, cases of pathological jealousy of this kind are not very common. In contrast, regular forms, ranging from suspicion to the "scene" violent, are a permanent ballast that prevents balancing marriage. The more youth or early marriage, the more frequent events arising from the existence of an irrational feeling, generated mostly by small things or events without importance.
For a jealous wife, every woman is a rival in the future, except those that exceeded a certain age. If her husband talk to a woman on the street, in meetings or classes of service, it becomes suspect.
Some men accept and indulge in a position to "dear husband, " taking these events as evidence of the exclusive interests of a woman who loved fretting at any time.
The truth is that jealousy is not expressing love but emotional poverty. No fear of losing loved one is the main reason, but that you realize - consciously or not - how much love you have to be to keep from giving love and giving you the capacity is low.
If subjective or objective factors give a mobile jealousy, fighting to keep loved knightly methods do not lead with honesty, loyalty and complete devotion, but by compulsion, fear and dictatorial attitude.
Men are not detour them from this disease. A new dress, a more cheerful smile, eyes more forcefully to a stranger or a conversation with a man in society are sufficient grounds for a scene of jealousy.
If you do not trust your spouse, you can not make you happy, because trust, honesty and love are essential and without them you can not find your happiness.
Love between two people can vary, it can increase or decrease in intensity, but can not endure without confidence for years.
Happy marriage is based on true love, full of mutual trust, in which personality develops and enlightens without fears and obsessions. Trust is mutual respect and recognition of human values ??of love, not jealousy that will make him be faithful companion for life, but trust that he can love and be loved with dignity.
A person who through his behavior does not deserve true love, trust, loyalty and respect, not worthy of jealousy. Worth only indifference.
It says there is no love without jealousy. I would say rather that, where jealousy is not true love.
Jealousy is fear, distrust and suspicion. It is a tyrannical form of denial of personality, freedom of thought and action, that seeps, as tens of octopus tentacles, even in the thoughts of "love", which he wrapped and strangle them. Surrounded in an atmosphere of permanent hostility, man becomes a mere object, which is denied the right to have friends, preferences, entertainment or concerns you away from the person you need to love, which must consider every moment.
As long as occurs sporadically, but binds to a fact that could cause such a reaction (whether or not that was real), jealousy can be accepted and understood, especially if the person suffering from this "disease "is an exclusive and authoritative person.
When it becomes an obsession, a craze, when silence is a cause for suspicion, living with a jealous man becomes an ordeal.
Fortunately, cases of pathological jealousy of this kind are not very common. In contrast, regular forms, ranging from suspicion to the "scene" violent, are a permanent ballast that prevents balancing marriage. The more youth or early marriage, the more frequent events arising from the existence of an irrational feeling, generated mostly by small things or events without importance.
For a jealous wife, every woman is a rival in the future, except those that exceeded a certain age. If her husband talk to a woman on the street, in meetings or classes of service, it becomes suspect.
Some men accept and indulge in a position to "dear husband, " taking these events as evidence of the exclusive interests of a woman who loved fretting at any time.
The truth is that jealousy is not expressing love but emotional poverty. No fear of losing loved one is the main reason, but that you realize - consciously or not - how much love you have to be to keep from giving love and giving you the capacity is low.
If subjective or objective factors give a mobile jealousy, fighting to keep loved knightly methods do not lead with honesty, loyalty and complete devotion, but by compulsion, fear and dictatorial attitude.
Men are not detour them from this disease. A new dress, a more cheerful smile, eyes more forcefully to a stranger or a conversation with a man in society are sufficient grounds for a scene of jealousy.
If you do not trust your spouse, you can not make you happy, because trust, honesty and love are essential and without them you can not find your happiness.
Love between two people can vary, it can increase or decrease in intensity, but can not endure without confidence for years.
Happy marriage is based on true love, full of mutual trust, in which personality develops and enlightens without fears and obsessions. Trust is mutual respect and recognition of human values ??of love, not jealousy that will make him be faithful companion for life, but trust that he can love and be loved with dignity.
A person who through his behavior does not deserve true love, trust, loyalty and respect, not worthy of jealousy. Worth only indifference.