I never ever thought that one would learn so much by simply being "married"I wish that I new earlier in life that marriage was the secret to bending, exposing and exploiting oneself.
More to my amaze, that I would be the envy of my husband's friends and that I would actually watch them perform before me.
It has been a terrible experience to be so close and in actual gatherings with people that had so much hate and pain in their hearts and that they would easily let it show.
I will get to the point already.
I want "you" who may be in a similar situation in which I was in to know to stand for who you are and be the best that you can be in all situations in life.
Observe, listen and relax.
I am a Mexican-American woman married to a Russian man who in fact only "had" Russian friends at the time that we married and who taught me one thing or two about "friendship"You see, we had and still have differences because of the "language" the culture and their Communist customs and of course the women think that they're more beautiful and the men think that they have more money (it all may sound like the typical marriage) and that is the reason why I'm writing this article.
There is nothing to be ashamed of, the trick is how do you handle it? How to deal with people that you don't want around you?How to keep your cool with the fools? I used to abore hearing their name being pronounced around me, I got upset, mad and angry all at once until I was introduced to the magnificent book called "the 48 laws of power" by Robert Greene.
Read it! Since then, magically I have found somehow to not even think about them, I hear their name and I'm glad that they still call my husband, and that they try to be in the spot light, because I found a way not to care...
and that is the key! Let your foes fool themselves, don't stick around, give your spouse some space, watch how the game is played and who will loose at the end, but don't let that looser be you.
More to my amaze, that I would be the envy of my husband's friends and that I would actually watch them perform before me.
It has been a terrible experience to be so close and in actual gatherings with people that had so much hate and pain in their hearts and that they would easily let it show.
I will get to the point already.
I want "you" who may be in a similar situation in which I was in to know to stand for who you are and be the best that you can be in all situations in life.
Observe, listen and relax.
I am a Mexican-American woman married to a Russian man who in fact only "had" Russian friends at the time that we married and who taught me one thing or two about "friendship"You see, we had and still have differences because of the "language" the culture and their Communist customs and of course the women think that they're more beautiful and the men think that they have more money (it all may sound like the typical marriage) and that is the reason why I'm writing this article.
There is nothing to be ashamed of, the trick is how do you handle it? How to deal with people that you don't want around you?How to keep your cool with the fools? I used to abore hearing their name being pronounced around me, I got upset, mad and angry all at once until I was introduced to the magnificent book called "the 48 laws of power" by Robert Greene.
Read it! Since then, magically I have found somehow to not even think about them, I hear their name and I'm glad that they still call my husband, and that they try to be in the spot light, because I found a way not to care...
and that is the key! Let your foes fool themselves, don't stick around, give your spouse some space, watch how the game is played and who will loose at the end, but don't let that looser be you.